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关于人性:
我们恨贪官,又拼命报考公务员;我们骂垄断,又往高薪单位钻;我们讥讽不正之风,自己却忙着找关系。
总之,我们愤怒,不是因为不公平,而是觉得自己处在不公平中的不利位置,我们不是想消灭这种不公平,而是想让自己处在不公平中的有利位置。
这种骨子里的自私,才是真实的人性。
Regarding human nature:
We hate corrupt officials and strive to apply for civil servants; We curse monopolies and then go to high paying units; We ridicule unhealthy tendencies, but we are busy finding connections ourselves.
In short, we are angry not because of unfairness, but because we feel that we are at a disadvantage in unfairness. We do not want to eliminate this unfairness, but rather want to put ourselves in a favorable position in unfairness.
This kind of inherent selfishness is the true human nature.
告诉你一个残酷的人际关系真相,
你和任何人的关系,
其实并不取决于你对别人有多好,
而是取决于你的强弱,
你手上的筹码有多少。
人们普遍对强者比较宽容,
而弱者你没做错什么,
人们也会对你很苛刻。
就算你一味地忍气吞声,
往往也会被别人看成廉价的讨好。
无论在什么时候,人们都会敬重强者,苛求弱者。任何时候都需要用实力说话,你的实力就是你的份量,就是话语权,这就是残酷的现实。任何关系都需要等价交换,人际交往取决于你实力的强弱,这是人性的真相。
Tell you a cruel truth about interpersonal relationships,
Your relationship with anyone,
It doesn't really depend on how well you treat others,
It depends on your strength,
How many chips do you have in your hand.
People are generally more tolerant towards the strong,
And the weak, you didn't do anything wrong,
People will also be very strict with you.
Even if you just swallow your breath,
Often, it is also seen as a cheap way to please others.
At all times, people will respect the strong and demand the weak. At any time, you need to speak with your strength. Your strength is your weight, your voice, and this is the cruel reality. Any relationship requires equal exchange, and interpersonal communication depends on your strength, which is the truth of human nature.
人性最残忍的真相莫过于这一点:
身边的朋友或许希望你过得好,但是前提条件是,不希望你过得比他好。
自己的失败固然可怕,但身边人的成功更令人揪心。
乞丐不会妒忌百万富翁,但是他肯定会妒忌收入更高的乞丐。
人允许一个陌生人的发迹,却不能容忍一个身边人的晋升。
世界上最昂贵的税叫“认知税”,人的一生都在为自己的认知买单!
The cruelest truth of human nature is this:
Friends around you may want you to live well, but the premise is that you don't want you to live better than him.
Your own failure is terrible, but the success of people around you is even more worrying.
Beggars don't envy millionaires, but they certainly envy beggars with higher incomes.
People allow a stranger to make a fortune, but they can't tolerate the promotion of someone around them.
The most expensive tax in the world is called "cognitive tax". People pay for their cognition all their life!
什么是人性?
荒田无人耕,
一耕有人争。
肚里无食无人知,
身上无衣受人欺。
合伙租船船会漏,
两家喂驴驴会瘦。
一切关系,都是利益,
利益在哪里,人心就在哪里。
世界上最可怕的不是鬼,
而是人性的丑陋。
看似牢不可破的关系,
在利益面前,脆弱得不堪一击。
落井下石的都是自己人,
看你笑话的都不是外人,
不想你好的都是身边人。
鬼饿敢拦路勾魂,
虎饿拦路能伤人,
鱼饿它敢跃龙门,
人饿会丧尽人伦,
就敢去坑身边人!
有些人,
为了利益可以出卖朋友,
有些人,
为了钱财可以泯灭人性,
不要赌人性,
不要猜人心。
What is human nature?
No one cultivates the barren fields,
One plow is disputed by others.
No one knows without food in their stomachs,
Wearing no clothes and being bullied.
Partnership chartering may result in leakage,
Two families will lose weight by feeding donkeys and donkeys.
All relationships are interests,
Wherever the interests lie, the hearts of the people are there.
The scariest thing in the world is not ghosts,
But the ugliness of human nature.
A seemingly unbreakable relationship,
In the face of interests, they are so fragile that they are vulnerable to a single blow.
Those who fall into trouble are all their own people,
It's not just outsiders who are laughing at you,
Those who don't want to be good are all those around them.
Ghost hunger dares to block the way and seduce the soul,
Tiger hunger blocking the way can hurt people,
If the fish is hungry, it dares to leap over the dragon gate,
Hunger can ruin one's relationships,
Dare to pit the people around you!
Some people,
To betray friends for profit,
Some people,
In order for money to destroy human nature,
Don't gamble on human nature,
Don't guess the heart.
因为人性你赌不起,
因为人心你猜不透,
赢了不过是得到了信任,
输了就是血淋淋的教训。
在人性的深处,
往往暗藏着一些不堪入目的东西,
一旦有了合适的土壤,就会蔓延生长。
不要高估人心,
不要低估人性!
人性这个东西,
不可言,不可研,不可验。
人性最大的恶:
恨你有,笑你无,
嫌你穷,怕你富。
因为我不好,我也不想让你好。
Because of human nature, you can't afford to gamble,
Because you can't guess the human heart,
Winning is just gaining trust,
Losing is a bloody lesson.
In the depths of human nature,
Often there are some unattractive things hidden behind them,
Once suitable soil is available, it will spread and grow.
Don't overestimate people's hearts,
Don't underestimate human nature!
Human nature, this thing,
It cannot be said, researched, or verified.
The greatest evil of human nature:
Hate you for having, laugh at you for not having,
I despise you for being poor, but I fear you for being rich.
Because I'm not good, I don't want you either.